Only In America...

Only in America..

• can a pizza get to your house faster than an ambulance.
• are there handicap parking spaces at a roller rink.
• do drugstores make the sick walk all the way to the back of the store to get their prescriptions, while the healthy people can buy cigarettes up front. 
• do people order double cheeseburger, large fries and a DIET coke.
• do banks leave doors wide open and then chain the pens to the counters.
• do we leave cars worth thousands of dollars in the driveway and put our useless junk in the garage.
• do we buy hotdogs in packages of 10 and buns in packages of 8.
• do they have drive up ATM machines with braille lettering.
• do we use the word 'politics' to describe the process so well. "Poli" in latin meaning many and "tics" meaning blood sucking creatures.

The meaning of "good enough"...

"Never doubt for a second that you weren't good enough for me"
Those words mean more than he could have ever have thought about. When you say someone is "good enough" for you--How do you mean it? To you, what does "good enough" entail?
When I get told that..this is what I think: Obviously I AM NOT "good enough", in every way. Either its something about: me physically, you don't like how I think about things,where I'm headed in my life or the "I don't think you'd be happiest with me".

That means you don't like my body, you're not willing to deal with our differences, you don't approve of my career or you won't wait for me and you don't trust my judgment. Obviously as for my body--if you don't like it, sorry-I won't change it just to make some guy who won't meet me in the middle, happy. If you don't like how I think about things and to you, that's enough to stop a relationship? Here's some advice: not everyone in the world thinks like you. Get over it or you will be alone for the rest of your pitiful little life. And as for my most hated..you don't think I'd be happiest with you... Well for 1. If I weren't happy with you, I WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN WITH YOU TO START WITH, 2. How do you know? You're not even willing to try.

In saying any of these, you just told me " You're not good enough for me. You're not good enough to wait for, you're not good enough to fight for, you're not good enough to trust or to give a chance."
So girls..if he's not willing to fight to keep you, to wait for you to come home from that war, to simply compromise with you..be glad that you're not good enough for him, you can do better.

Let's be cliche' and start at the begininning...

My name is Heather. I don't believe it fits and more people call me Momo than not. I have long thought about this "blogging" but didn't believe what I had to say would be found of any importance. However, I no longer care. If i try and fail-who will know, nor care for that matter. So here it goes.


I am married, to a rough but loving man. Hes not the kind I thought I would end up with-but I love him and he's  quite honestly-amazing. We have a wonderful little girl--Abigail Kayme. She is my light and joy in this stupid world full of idiots. She nearly always happy, and seriously really cute. And this is a proven fact since she will be featured in the book "Americas cutest babies." Boo-fleeping yah.

I did the whole Air Force thing- I worked as a mechanic for more years than I'd like and now I'm moving on..I'm thinking photography. I like to speak my own lingo-I don't like to be labeled. And really--who does??  I make mistakes..but I fight through it all cuz I've been through worse. At this point..I'm fleeping superwoman!