Saturday, August 27, 2011

The meaning of "good enough"...

"Never doubt for a second that you weren't good enough for me"
Those words mean more than he could have ever have thought about. When you say someone is "good enough" for you--How do you mean it? To you, what does "good enough" entail?
When I get told that..this is what I think: Obviously I AM NOT "good enough", in every way. Either its something about: me physically, you don't like how I think about things,where I'm headed in my life or the "I don't think you'd be happiest with me".

That means you don't like my body, you're not willing to deal with our differences, you don't approve of my career or you won't wait for me and you don't trust my judgment. Obviously as for my body--if you don't like it, sorry-I won't change it just to make some guy who won't meet me in the middle, happy. If you don't like how I think about things and to you, that's enough to stop a relationship? Here's some advice: not everyone in the world thinks like you. Get over it or you will be alone for the rest of your pitiful little life. And as for my most hated..you don't think I'd be happiest with you... Well for 1. If I weren't happy with you, I WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN WITH YOU TO START WITH, 2. How do you know? You're not even willing to try.

In saying any of these, you just told me " You're not good enough for me. You're not good enough to wait for, you're not good enough to fight for, you're not good enough to trust or to give a chance."
So girls..if he's not willing to fight to keep you, to wait for you to come home from that war, to simply compromise with you..be glad that you're not good enough for him, you can do better.

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